Progress doesn’t have to look perfect. Social media may celebrate the “everywhere dog,” but that’s not the goal—and it’s not fair to your dog. Training can build skills and confidence, but it can’t rewrite who they are at their core. My collie Piper can handle a bustling pub, yet she’d rather be on the moors or at home. Respecting your dog’s natural preferences and setting realistic goals is the real win.

Neutering is often seen as the “responsible” choice—but it’s not a one-size-fits-all solution. Testosterone plays a vital role in your dog’s health, confidence, and emotional balance. Before making a decision, it’s important to understand the hidden side effects and consider all your options.

Enzo was the perfect Border Collie puppy—clever, sociable, and full of joy. But when adolescence hit, life became overwhelming for him (and us). From over-arousal and reactivity to humping and territorial behaviour, his hormones ran the show. Chemical castration gave Enzo the breathing space he needed for his brain to catch up with his body—and helped him grow into the happy, confident dog he is today.

Not all dogs want to say hello — and that’s okay. My Welsh Collie, Efa, lives with chronic pain and finds on-lead greetings stressful. She’s social, but only when she has choice. On-lead, she can’t move away or control the interaction, which can lead to snapping. I choose to advocate for her needs by avoiding on-lead greetings entirely. It’s not about isolation — it’s about respect, consent, and setting her up for success.