Progress doesn’t have to look perfect. Social media may celebrate the “everywhere dog,” but that’s not the goal—and it’s not fair to your dog. Training can build skills and confidence, but it can’t rewrite who they are at their core. My collie Piper can handle a bustling pub, yet she’d rather be on the moors or at home. Respecting your dog’s natural preferences and setting realistic goals is the real win.

Neutering is often seen as the “responsible” choice—but it’s not a one-size-fits-all solution. Testosterone plays a vital role in your dog’s health, confidence, and emotional balance. Before making a decision, it’s important to understand the hidden side effects and consider all your options.

Not all dogs want to say hello — and that’s okay. My Welsh Collie, Efa, lives with chronic pain and finds on-lead greetings stressful. She’s social, but only when she has choice. On-lead, she can’t move away or control the interaction, which can lead to snapping. I choose to advocate for her needs by avoiding on-lead greetings entirely. It’s not about isolation — it’s about respect, consent, and setting her up for success.

The Puppy Blues—feelings of sadness, regret, or overwhelm after getting a puppy—are common in the early weeks or months. Caused by exhaustion, disrupted routines, and unrealistic expectations, they can be eased with strategies like crate training, support networks, and celebrating small wins. This guide offers reassurance, expert tips, and advice on when to seek help—reminding you these feelings are temporary.

The Predatory Pancake: why your Border Collie may refuse to move around triggers!